Stratus Lounge at Hotel Monaco

Wedding Celebration

Our Wedding

In early 2022, two hopeful skeptics decided to (bravely) try for love – one more time. We matched on Bumble in April and quickly discovered two very important things: we both love 90s hip-hop, and we both write very long messages.After weeks of exchanging chapter-long messages, we had our first phone call, which lasted more than three hours. We talked about everything from basketball to faith, life, families, music, and our journeys in non-profit work. When we hung up, we both felt it: excitement mixed with that quiet,careful optimism that comes from knowing what it took to get there.Our first date followed on May 29 at LaScala in Pennsauken, where we talked for hours, including some not-so-subtle interrogation, and felt instant chemistry. When we got home that night, we sent almost simultaneous texts saying that we may be in (very good) trouble.By that summer, we were road-tripping to Niagara Falls, sharing playlists and stories the entire way. By September, we were wandering the streets of Paris, a little amazed at how naturally this love was unfolding—how safe it felt, how right it felt.Since then, we've joined families, traveled a lot, laughed evenmore, and made each other's lives so much fuller and brighter. We often wondered why people say that when you find the right one, you just know. But now – we get it.We also discovered our shared passion for real estate and decided to start a business together. We bought short-term rental properties and launched a property management business. Our motto, What Could Go Right, turned out to be more than a phrase—it became a way of loving each other and building a life we love, side by side.In September 2023, we moved in together, officially blending lives that were already full and deeply loved. That includes our incredible kids—Juke, Eli, and Jasmine—and two grand babies, Tre and Kai, who all bring us joy every day. And of course, Ellie, our sweet, very spoiled pit bull, was thrilled to have us both in the same house.On September 25, 2025, on Pam’s birthday, what she thought was a simple birthday dinner turned into something unforgettable. At one of our favorite restaurants, Cuba Libre, Omar got down on one knee and said he had never been more sure of anything in his life. Pam, completely stunned, could only ask, “Really? Really?”—until she finally stood up and said YES.Since then, we’ve continued building our life, our family, and our business—grateful for the timing, the growth, and the love that brought us here. We’ve both had full lives, which you’ve all been integral parts of. And now we’re so grateful to have all of your love and support as we embark on thisnew adventure. We can't wait to celebrate this chapter with our closest family and friends—a chapter full of love, laughter, family, adventure, and answering the question that started it all… what could go right?

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Cocktail attire is encouraged. Think polished, festive, and ready for a fun evening at a rooftop lounge! Dresses, jumpsuits, suits, and dressy separates are all welcome. Our celebration will be on a partially covered rooftop, so please plan for unpredictable weather. Our celebration colors are sage, olive, navy, champagne, and gold—feel free to complement the palette, but it’s certainly not required!

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The link below will take you directly to the group booking site. You can also make reservations by calling 1-800-Kimpton. Reference Group Code&nbsp;JM6.&nbsp; Can't join us in Philadelphia?We would love to have you celebrate with us virtually. A livestream of our ceremony will be available. Please RSVP as a Virtual Guest and we'll send you the viewing link prior to the wedding.

Kimpton Hotel Monaco Philadelphia

Travel

Things to see and do in Philly! LOVE Park – Iconic photo spot with the famous LOVE sign and great people-watching.City Hall – The heart of the city and a perfect jumping-off point for exploring Center City.Reading Terminal Market – A must for food lovers: cheesesteaks, pastries, and everything in between.Independence Hall – Walk through American history where it all began.Old City Philadelphia – Cobblestone streets, galleries, bars, and lots of early-American charm.Philadelphia Museum of Art – World-class art and yes, those famous steps.Rittenhouse Square – Upscale shopping, great restaurants, and prime strolling territory. Favorite Restaurants Zahav – Award-winning Israeli cuisine that lives up to the hype.Suraya – Stunning space and unforgettable Middle Eastern dishes.Parc – Classic French bistro vibes right on Rittenhouse Square.Reading Terminal Market – Not a restaurant, but a food lover’s dream with endless options.Talula’s Garden – Cozy, romantic, and farm-to-table perfection near Old City. For Families Philadelphia Zoo – America’s oldest zoo and a hit with kids of all ages.Please Touch Museum – Hands-on fun designed especially for little ones.Franklin Square – Playground, carousel, mini-golf, and space to run around.Sesame Place – A nearby theme park favorite for younger kids. For Couples Rittenhouse Square – Perfect for strolling, coffee dates, and people-watching.Old City Philadelphia – Romantic streets, art galleries, and candlelit dinners.Schuylkill River Trail – Scenic walks with skyline views.Philadelphia Magic Gardens – Colorful, artsy, and a great photo stop together.

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